I hate you have incurred so much depreciation. I bought my 23 XLT for $36k. Early adopters always get hit with at least 10% depreciation as soon as you drive off the lot.
The East Coast sounds challenging. I'm on the I-30\I-40 corridor and have had good experiences with EA, GM energy, and Tesla super chargers. Google maps will tell you if the charger is compatible. I'm finding most 150kw Tesla chargers ARE 🚫
A 200 mile plus road trip Alexander AR to MEM requires a stop both directions but the logistics isn't bad. I imagine some parts of Texas would anger you.