Actually, you can access any Tesla charger. Just drive slowly straddling the chargers until you hear the steady beep from the vehicle. That's the indication you have just enough distance to plug in the cable. Keep in mind you will be blocking two chargers. I have never had a problem, and I road...
I own a 2023 Lariat ER. Just crossed 43K miles, and I love it. I haven't had any problems thus far, but I can definitely understand your frustrations. Best of luck with it.